Figuring out how to emotionally connect with a man isn’t easy. But if you want to feel closer, here are 13 ways to build a deeper connection in no time.
Men are taught to be unemotional individuals who only find affection when they are made a sandwich or got a really good blowjob. Of course, they’ll enjoy those things but that’s not necessarily the way to connect with someone. Knowing how to emotionally connect with a man means going deeper than surface level.
Those are stereotypical ideas of how a man thinks, but people forget that men are emotional people, just like women. So, if you want a relationship with a man, not just casual sex or the once a month booty call, connect with him on a deeper level.
How to emotionally connect with a man
This can be tricky. When you want to connect with someone, we tend to force it on the other person. To ask them questions, making them answer them without letting them naturally answer in their own time. We want everything now, we want the connection, the butterflies in the stomach, the whole thing.
I know you want to connect with him quickly and I’m not saying not to, but you’re going to have to go easy on him or else you’ll scare him.
#1 Don’t make him open up to you. I know you want to deepen the connection, but listen if he wants to open up to you, he will. You need to make him feel safe so that he’s comfortable with telling you personal things about him. If you ask too many questions or bitch about how he’s not opening up to you, it won’t help.
#2 Do have sex. Listen, sexual intimacy is a great way to connect with someone, you can use it as a way to become intimate with someone. People connect with each other through sex, both men and women want to be desired. So, the answer is yes, do have sex with him but don’t rely fully on sex or making out to bring you closer together.
#3 You have to take a step forward. If you want him to open up to you, you’re going to have to open up to him. Of course, it’s scary but if you don’t open up to him, you’re not showing him your vulnerable side. And he’s not going to put his guard down. Basically, someone needs to be vulnerable first and since you want to emotionally connect with him, make the first move.